Happy Sprinkle No. 10: A Weekend on Cape Cod

Today, my heart is full.

I spent this past weekend on Cape Cod helping at an estate sale.

About three months ago, my colleague, whom I had grown to see as family, passed away from Lymphoma.

He had been everything to me.

He was my mentor when I needed professional advice. He was my friend when I needed one the most. He was my family when I had none.

He is my guardian angel.

He and his wife had a second home on Cape Cod. Over the past five years, he spent many weekends there, doctoring it up and making sure it was the perfect Cape getaway for he and his wife and their guests that rented the home via AirBnB.

The Cape Home carries a piece of his heart.

After he passed away, his wife decided to put the home on the market; she no longer had the love of her life to share it with, and she had enough on her plate with taking care of their year-round home and finishing her doctorate degree.

The house sold in a matter of days. She is set to move out of the home by mid-November.

The estate sale was for this home.

It was a difficult couple of days.

It is emotionally draining, selling the belongings of a deceased loved one:

Handing off the books whose pages he turned with his hands, the cothing that covered his back, the tools he used to build his home, the paintings that touched his very soul.

Yet, through it all, I met some of the most wonderful people.

His wife, one the most intelectual and spirital people I know.

His sister who, until the last week of his life he had been estranged, so spirited and loving.

The Cape Cod residents that came to the sale, some of the most kind and conversational people I have ever met. I could have talked to some of them for days and I felt like I knew them for much longer than only a mere 30 minutes.

This past weekend, despite the emotional and physical difficulties of it, was a gift.

It was Gordon (my colleague), bringing myself, his wife and his sister together to help us to grow and to heal.

It was a reminder that through all of the things that make life confusing and difficult, sad and frustrating, there are other things, bigger things, that make life so beautiful and worth living.

 

 

Happy Sprinkle No. 5: Because Red Sox, Yo!

Today, I am happy to be a New Englander! Because RED SOX, yo!

If you have not yet heard, the Red Sox made it to the World Series! Needless to say, I could not be more excited…actually, I probably could be more excited if I called myself a true Red Sox fan.

Besides the fact that I am not originally from New England (Go Tigers!), I don’t really follow sports too much. Sure, I’ll catch the tidbits that are discussed on the morning news, but I don’t spend time stressing over stats or discussing the latest trade.

That being said, I have nothing against sports. I was an athlete up until college, and, in fact, I quite enjoy going to a Red Sox game or other sporting event.

There is definitely something to be said about the electric energy that pulses through a stadium, and of course, at competitions, the music sounds a little better, and the food tastes a little grander…I just have no idea what is going on when it gets down to the actual sport lol.

Go team!

But it is pretty cool to be a part of Red Sox Nation right now. Even though I was not holding my breath to make the World Series, it is super cool to see how excited most of the rest of Boston is about it.

The World Series has been a main point of conversation on the news for the past few days. Of course, Fenway is being absolutely decked out to the max.

This morning, broadcasters were ooing and aawing over the World Series logo that has been painted on the Fenway field. They were also going on about how cool it is to follow the Sox on Instagram because the page is constantly being updated with World Series decorations and other such hubbub.

If there was ever a time that I wished I knew more about baseball or professional sports, this is one of those times. I would love to say “It’s great to be a Boston sports fan!”

Nevertheless, it is awesome to feel the electric energy that has taken Boston by storm and to feel a part of something that is greater than myself.

…Not to mention that my office is providing a free lunch today in honor of the World Series…so, yes, it is good to be a semi-Boston sports fan/ New Englander 🙂